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“Why Is My Wife So Disrespectful?” – by Peacefulwife

January 13, 2015 by


A guest post by my wife, April. You can find her at or her Youtube channel, “April Cassidy.”: It is always tricky on the blogs when we have a female on the husband’s blog or a male on the wife’s blog.  A lot of times the comments tend to move the discussion backward instead […]

Why “The Respected Husband?”

September 3, 2014 by


I hope most people understand why this blog is called “The Respected Husband,” but I thought it might be good to explain it in a post. It is entirely possible that you could initially see the name of the blog and think that the blog could mean several things. It could be taken that I […]

Suggestions versus Directives

April 1, 2014 by


In marriages it is inevitable that one spouse is going to be more dominant than the other spouse. That may be a 51/49 split, a 75/25 split, a 99/1 split, or anywhere in between. While I hope most are not on the extreme side of that split, it is only natural that one spouse is […]

A Husband Lives Out Christ’s Love for the Church

March 25, 2014 by


Back a couple of years ago, a good friend of ours in the blogging community, Kayla Gulick, wrote a piece entitled My Demon. In the post, she explored all of the voices she hears in her head as a woman that try to break down her security in her relationship with her husband. I thought […]

Her Demon

April 2, 2013 by


My wife has come in contact with a lot of great women over the last year or so. One that has taken her message to heart and made huge strides in her marriage is Kayla Gulick. Kayla has a blog over at Lessons of Mercy blog. Back around 6 months ago she published a post titled […]

The Emotions of March Madness

March 20, 2013 by


Let’s tackle another issue we don’t seem to fully understand about our wives: Emotions. It might be helpful if we explain what we are talking about a little more. Well, occasionally as a man you might be able to understand it through this example: Was there ever a time when you needed to really concentrate on […]

We’re Married, Right? Why Does She Still Feel Insecure About My Love For Her?

January 23, 2013 by


When I first started this blog I did a series on topics discussed in the book For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn. I wanted to go back and take another look at this book and maybe hit some areas I didn’t look at the first time. For a modern husband, it is a […]

The Power of Words – Show and Tell

January 8, 2013 by


We as women LONG SO MUCH for our husbands to show us love verbally.  We want them to say, “I love you” first and initiate deep, emotional, romantic discussions about all the things they love about us.  We feel discouraged and gypped when our husbands don’t use words to show us their love. The problem is […]

Ways Husbands Come Across Unlovingly

December 28, 2012 by


My wife answered a comment the other day where someone asked if she had a list of things that husbands do that come across as unloving.  So, she came up with the list below.  She gave me the opportunity to put a title to it so after many attempts I settled on the one above […]

Things Husbands Do That Make Their Wives Feel Unloved

August 30, 2012 by


A guest post by Peacefulwife. As you all know, I usually only write to wives.  And, for the ladies reading this post – if you are discontent or resentful in your marriage right now, I think that this may be a post for you to skip.  The ladies may want to check out my blog for wives […]

FOR THE HUSBANDS – Why Does My Wife Try to MAKE Me Pray with Her?

August 27, 2012 by


Gentlemen, I am hoping to shed a little light on a very difficult subject in many Christian marriages – spiritual intimacy. Let me see if I can explain why your wife may seem to be so demanding about wanting you to pray with her and so upset if you don’t pray with her.  Her approach […]

The Pursuit of Reassurance

April 29, 2012 by


Last time we looked at some of the C-A-U-S-E-S that trigger your wife to have doubt about your love for her. Today we are going to look at some ways that we can stop the downward spiral of doubt in its tracks. So far we have seen that your wife can have an emotionally painful […]