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Being a Good Bad Guy

August 27, 2013 by


Back when I was in high school, 25 years ago today, I went to a concert at a local Christian bookstore with a friend. The band was a local group and truthfully they were pretty bad. To give you an indication of how bad they were, the one song that I can remember that they […]

The C-A-U-S-E-S of Your Wife’s Doubt

April 28, 2012 by


Let’s continue trying to get out of the Downward Spiral of Doubt that is created when your wife has insecurity about your love for her. In this post we are going to look at some things that Shaunti and Jeff Feldhaun found surprising when they interviewed wives in their book, “For Men Only” and look at some […]

The Downward Spiral Of Doubt

April 27, 2012 by


 I spent years pursuing my wife. I talked with her about my dreams, goals, and future plans. I carried her out to nice restaurants, movies, concerts, and all types of fun activities. I made it a point to show her I loved her by cuddling, hugs, kisses, and telling her how much I loved her. […]

Her Knight in Shining Armor

March 28, 2012 by


Over the last several weeks, we have looked at some of the ways that we can decipher the Wife Code. We have looked at how we can provide our wives the reassurance they need, help them with their emotions, provide them with security, listen and communicate more effectively, and exalt their beauty. As I have […]

Focusing on Your Wife’s Beauty

March 22, 2012 by


So, we are going to spend some more time talking about our wives’ need to hear us talk about their beauty. Last time, we discussed how you are your wife’s most important mirror. You are the one person that she is trying to look attractive for in the first place and the first one that […]

Cake Principle of Marriage

March 9, 2012 by


By now, you are probably getting the picture loud and clear. I am going to tell you about a marriage topic that sounds quite easy at face value. I will then tell you to think about how you would logically approach it with your wife. After that, I will pull the rug out from under […]

Your Wife’s 5 Emotional Security Blankets

March 7, 2012 by


Today we are going to try to explain this foreign concept of Emotional Security and why it is important to your wife. We are going to evaluate 5 ways that will provide her with the emotional security she needs. 1. She needs to feel close to you The ability for you to create a closeness […]

Financial Security or Emotional Security?

March 7, 2012 by


Today we are going to talk about a wife’s need for security. Unfortunately, I think you will find that our view of security is drastically different than our wives’. Security is a pretty broad topic. When we think about security we think about something being protected. So, as a man we want to provide this […]